But why be afraid? The other can only say no. Of course there is the possibility of being rejected. You must have closed your doors for love, that’s all. If fear is your problem, then think about your personality, watch it.
When you come closer, as if a magnet is attracting you, you would like to be with this person. A man who is feeling love bubbles up with a positive energy. And fear is energy just like love, a negative energy. There are people who simply put off anybody anybody who comes closer, they become afraid. People sitting, people walking - you watch. And people who are afraid they become afraid of one thing absolutely, and that is the fear of being rejected. You can wait forever because the other is also afraid. You wait somebody should come to you and love you. Because everybody is in fear, not only you. If fear is felt, then love is the problem. If fear is the problem, the problem in fact is you should be more loving so somebody can be more loving to you. If fear is the problem, that means you should seek love. And if fear is a problem for you, that shows to me that you are looking at the wrong side. Even a single human being can give you such deep at-homeness in love, what to think about when a person achieves to prayer?įear in fact is the absence of love. Then there will be fear everywhere because everywhere there are enemies, no friends, and the whole existence seems to be alien you seem to be accidental, not rooted, not at home. If in your life there is no love, then you will become afraid. You are accepted by someone, you are valued you are not futile. Even by a single human being you are accepted, something in the depth opens - a flower-like phenomenon in the innermost being. In a deep moment of love, existence becomes a home - you are not a stranger, you are not an outsider, you are accepted. Only in a deep moment of love there is no fear. If you are not in love, fear arises, tremendous fear.
The first thing: fear is the other side of love.
He has promised many things in his sleep. He cannot dream and he cannot gather courage to open the eyes also, because there are involvements. Now he cannot even dream, because all dreams he has passed through they lead nowhere. What is his nervousness, the fear? Why he is so scared? Because every desire fulfilled, and still the frustration remains. Even very simple things are deeply rooted in greater patterns.Ī rich man is nervous. If there is no love, fear of death will be more.